I'm not going to try to tell you how and when you should move on because I know you're going to, in time. For now, you have every right to cry, to feel hurt, and to feel the way you're feeling. Don't listen to people trying to tell you to simply just "get over it," as if it was really that easy. When you really love someone that much, there's no such thing as a quick fix. There is no one-step how-to on how to not love someone.
Maybe you still believe in a second, third, or fourth chance but you just can't admit to yourself that those chances walked out the door when he chose to. But you have to. You have to come to terms with the fact he's not coming back because the sooner you do that, the sooner you can get on with this grand life you've always had—the one you will always have, with or without him. I know you're hurting, and that's okay but don't let it hurt you forever.
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